Fred Graves

Fred passed away peacefully in the early morning hours of December 20, 2024 at the age of 98 years while at the Sunnyside Manor Personal Care Home in Birtle. He was the third born of six children to Frank and Marion (Ward) Graves. After completing grade 11 he began farming with his dad part time while also operating a grader for the municipal district of Birtle. In 1957 he married his wife of 60 years, Helen (Cottingham) and had two children Shelley and Kenneth. In 1958 he purchased the Mansell farm and began farming this property and the family homestead near Foxwarren full time until his retirement. Fred enjoyed sports. He played baseball in his youth and later Fred and Helen curled together, often with other family members and had an abundance of curling trophies. Although busy on the farm, Fred always managed to get away for several weeks during the summer to go camping and fishing at Reed Lake with his family which he enjoyed very much. They where often accompanied by friends or extended family. Later in life he took up golfing and playing pool which he also enjoyed very much and participated in until his heath prevented him. Throughout the years he was active in the community, always appearing at the local coffee shop or leisure centre to catch up on local gossip and discuss farm related business. When he couldn't get around well, he spent his time watching whatever sports where available on TV. Fred was a generous soul with a kind heart. He will be missed.

   Fred was predeceased by his parents Frank (1985) and Marion (1970); parents-in-law Harry (1999) and Hazel (2004); wife Helen (March 8, 2018); daughter Shelley (Oct. 6, 2010) sisters Connie (May 23, 2020); Betty (March 7, 2013); brothers Bert (?) and Frances (Jan. 6, 2024; as well as in-laws Bill Zahaiko, Mervyn Paradine, Marion (Kyle) and Jean (Leary).

   Surviving Fred is his son Kenneth; brother Melvin (Pat); Grandchildren Brittany, Brendan, Riel and five great-grandchildren. He will also be missed and remembered by many other loving in-laws, nieces and nephews.

   The family wishes to extend a special thanks to all the members and staff at the Sunnyside manner for the special care provided to Fred in his declining years.